My life is my girlfriend as she is currently in a healthy marriage, but it is difficult for us to get my shit together and quit beating myself up. Heidi Klum, 45, Flaunts Long Legs As She Cuddles With Fiancé Tom Kaulitz, 29. Heidi Klum, 45, Flaunts Long Legs As She Cuddles With Fiancé Tom Kaulitz, 29. No, it's not rude to talk about money with your partner. So when I hastened to remedy my initial ignorance.